The Typical Gold-diggers & Jump-offs Playbook
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by Jausan | © 2014 All Rights Reserved
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The new term for a Gold-digger is a Jump-off or a woman who attaches herself like a leech to a successful man or woman. Even though some men may do this, it remains frowned upon in the broader sense. These women fall outside the category of most women because the majority put in the work and make a life for themselves in a way that does not require dressing provocatively or engaging into ass-kissing in the vain of currying favor from men. In essence, the majority of women work hard and sustain themselves and their families.
However there are those women who deliberate leverage their appearance, body and youth in exchange for a life-style provided by a man or a woman. The goal is to put forth as little effort in life as possible to reap maximum rewards at someone else’s expense. The hype associated with an exaggerated life-style of luxury is usually the motivation. Once these women attach themselves to a woman or man, they do whatever it takes to get the wealth or a portion of it. The sad thing is that many of these women rarely notice that they are so obvious in their approach and most often are disappointed when they are left with only memories, broke, and out of love.
The most depressing part f the cycle that these women undergo is the fact that age is in deed their enemy. Age = Relevance in their equation and it looks pathetic at age 40 and up when they are still trying to use such a tactic. Usually, women may go through the phase and grow out of it while others remains tuck on stupid until they are laughed at about age 70 walking around wearing a micro-mini-skirt around men one-third their age. They get stuck in an era. Some usually attempt to have children with these men or even marry them as an anchor to ensure they are associated with the lifestyle. The strategies may differ because there are some that do this out of seeking financial security while others may do so just to have a child or get married with divorce in mind to get their share of the pie.
The Gold-digger or jump-off is not someone that will hang around throughout troubling times unless there is a means to profit or come-up later. Men are viewed as commodities as some men may view these types of women. The vagina is the actual tool that is supposed to be used in order to keep the man.
The reason why the majority of these women wind up alone later in life is based largely on the superficial approach they have toward life in general. The hype is the life-style and the loneliness is the reality, nursing homes are filled with them. There is also a sense of entitlement that these women have in the sense that the man is supposed to share his wealth. Now, there are several different agendas for these women. There are only two agendas, their own and sometimes that of their extended family.
There are women that look for men or women in some cases who can not only take care of them, but their other family members. Even though in some cases there are cultural implications depending on which area of the world they are from and in other cases not so. One common occurrence is with some of the mail-order brides that may serve as anchor of spport for the rest of the family. In short, the woman is used by the family to marry or date the guy and use him to support both her and them.
One last note about thee women is many of them are not bad people, but possibly reared in a poor environment, or were stuck with the task of being responsible for the extended family. Therefore the guy is pimped by all parties. This happens especially to successful emn with limited interpersonal or social skills. The woman showing the attention to him may make him feel special in exchange for her being around him and in exchange enhancing his social image among peers i.e. trophy wives.